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Most people dread perusing and signing contracts. Most people are boring and serious. Our brides are the exception!! Check out this fun notation that was included in the contract that came in the mail today. I just love Gilded Brides! <3
September 19th can't get here soon enough.
"Marie" chose a grass-length hem for her farm wedding. She's going to love moving around freely on her wedding day! We also took up the bodice and re-shaped the hips a little. The skirt of the dress was originally a hot mess. We spent hours pressing it, grooming it, and stabilizing it with stitches. (The before picture is actually after it had already been pressed.) You can now see and appreciate the lace work on the skirt. The patterns of lace are pleasing and the silhouette of the dress is defined.
We took the bust of this dress waaay up...
We worked a wedding this weekend in the "Wild and Wonderful, West Virginia." Whew! Try saying that 5 times fast! While I wouldn't try repeating that phrase again and again, I wouldn't mind reliving this wedding. It went so smoothly. Usually the day's events take their cue from the outlook of the bride, and this day was no exception. Kayla was completely chill all day long and it reflected in the feeling of the day.
Her vendors were awesome to work with! Everyone did their own jobs, but also pitched in where needed. We are even having discussions about offering joint promos together because we all complemented each other so well. That is rare! I'll get to the vendor list throughout my post. Meanwhile, let me step out of the way and get on with the pictures and story of the day...
Kayla came to me back in April to have her dress altered. As you can see from the pictures, the torso was way too long for her frame. We had to shorten the waist, which is a deep alteration. We also hemmed her dress, put in a bustle, and groomed her gown. See the craziness in the train in the before picture? That takes hours of pressing and tacking to rectify.
Below, I've zoomed in on her gown to show the difference in the torso length.
Remember the part about the alterations being in April? Well, her gown is a delicate lace and is covered in very heavy beads. We are assuming that the weight of the gown stretched it, because the length was right in the studio months ago, but it was waaay off this past Saturday. Her dress was 4 inches too long! She could not walk in it. I'm so glad I was there to hem it on the spot!!! Seriously girls, this is why we push for either a final adjustment fitting or hiring us for wedding day services. You just never know.
Hem on left was so long she couldn't walk. Hem on right is fixed.
We had the gems on her dress wrapped in tulle so that they wouldn't put a pull in the lace. We pressed her gown, the bridesmaid's dresses, and the steamed the suits.
Kayla was finally aisle ready.
Here comes the bride! Kayla's train was orderly and beautiful.
The middle picture is Melissa Perella, the photographer of the day. She is incredible!!! I loved her calm, happy presence. She was genuinely nice and engaging of the other vendors. She was humble yet skilled- be still my heart!!
Kayla's planner had lined up all of the names of the wedding party in the order in which they should enter. She was super organized and helpful. Her name was Madison Branham. She's from Knoxville, TN.
Above, Kayla and Sam take their vows. What do I do during the ceremony? I run back to the bridal suite and pack everything up, except for hand stitching items and things I may need for a bustle mishap. I unplug the iron so that it can be cooling. I pack away "dangerous" things so that no little ones could get hurt while the things are left unattended.
Photos by Melissa Perella
Here are a couple of pictures from Melissa. She did such an incredible job! Please do take a moment to view her fb page and her website. You don't want to miss her work. I love the picture with the yellow fluffy cloud. I was so excited to see something so colorful pass over their day!
Behind Sam and Kayla is Tamarack, their wedding venue. Inside, the halls are lined with artwork and they have a gallery. I'm an art lover, so I was in heaven. The venue staff was amazing. Everything ran smoothly. One thing was unmistakable- the happy attitudes. I had to go in the back rooms several times throughout the day, and even in the back, where workers can be themselves, they were all helpful and happy! That says a lot.
I must also say that I truly loved this family. They kept me in stitches all day long. Especially, M.O.B. Sara, "LOVE her!!"
Hope you have enjoyed my take on the day!
Chloe...
This picture makes it a little tough to tell what we did, but the bust was uncomfortably tight and she wanted a pinched sweetheart. We also slimmed her waist and hips a smidge.
Joey...
"Layla"
Cassia...
To some it may seem far away, but in the wedding industry -where it seems I'm always mentally living 6 months out, the new year is just around the corner. Right now, we are starting a shift in the way we blog so that in 2016 we will have ushered in a completely new approach to our blogging.
Historically, I have blogged in bursts. The posts have been content rich, often taking hours to produce. My web traffic reflects this. I have a steady stream of visitors perusing my galleries with extreme bursts in traffic following my blog posts. I will still post about the weddings that I work, but the content will be much lighter.
The other change will be that, as often as I can, I intend to post before afters of our projects. Here's how it will work. The brides will choose an alias. I will post the headless before/afters of the brides, then I will give them a link to that post. They can choose to share their b/a pic with close friends and family at that time and/or do a social media post after their wedding day.
That will give my blog more sustained traffic without a huge investment in time. It also shares the love among many of my brides instead of only highlighting the brides whose weddings I work.
I hope you all enjoy seeing the dramatic transformations that we see here daily! I know I have a lot of gallery fans out there, but the galleries are really just a drop in the bucket compared to what we do every day. This new approach in blogging is going to share that excitement with you on a regular basis!
Here's our bride of the day. Alias: Saroya. Oohh... so intriguing! ;)
Excuse the different exposures. They are just cell snaps.
Woah! This dress came a looong way! This gown was from Celebration Bridal and was to-die-for with the soft pink bridal satin, overlaid with ivory lace. Unfortunately, it was a wee bit tight! Ashley spent an evening with us and we got it all worked out for her. Check out how amazing she looked this past Saturday at the Boxtree Lodge in Vinton. Cell snap courtesy of her bridesmaid, Jordan Asbury, who also happens to be a Gilded Bride!
We will have new homepage images soon. Yippee!! We had a shoot yesterday with a model that will be used in our new homepage images. Here's a sneek peek of how the shoot went.
Try not to get confused. This model's name is Noa, (pronounced the way we commonly pronounce the name of the Prophet with the Ark.) The following picture is not of me. I repeat- it is a different person, not me. I know, I know, it's hard to tell us apart. Her eyes are green, mine are brown. That may help you to tell the difference. ;)
From time to time I get emails asking me how to do certain things, sewing-wise. I wish I had time to write tuts on all of the questions that I receive. The question I was emailed today is, how do you mark a floor length gown for hemming? Well, there are lots of types of hems. There's no way to cover all of the bases, but from her description, I'm assuming that this person is asking about a hanky or baby hem on a light chiffon or georgette gown. The bulk of the fabric really matters when estimating how much fabric to leave for your hem allowance. The bulkier your fabric, the more length you need to leave.
While I illustrate how to mark, I'm going to go ahead and give a few cutting and hemming pointers as well.
Lets say the client wants a 1/4 or 1/8 inch rolled hem. This is straight-stitch, not serged. I would take that number and multiply by 3 to get 3/4 inch. I would have the client stand on a 1 inch magazine in the shoes that she plans to wear with the gown. (The magazine will compress slightly when she stands on it.) I would mark to the floor all the way around. The more marks you have the more accurate. Have her look straight forward, she's not allowed to look down. That picks up the back of the dress. I use a sliver of bar soap to mark. Make sure that you do not stretch the dress as you mark. Mark it right where it naturally hits the floor without being pulled.
Excuse my crude, silly sketches! ;)
Cut on the long side of the marks, (always err long on every decision, you can always shorten a bit if needed later.) When you approach a vertical seam, swoop down a little bit. The extra bulkiness will gobble a little of your length. (see my blue marks in the 3rd pic)
As you sew around the hem, snip those seam allowances on the vertical seams. That will make them less bulky.
One huge tip to note when sewing the baby hem: It's not just about the right hand holding a tight little roll. The left hand needs to pull to the left while the right index finger pushes down and pulls slightly to the right. (see gray arrows) This pulling from both directions keeps the feed dogs from causing your roll to pull extra fabric into it. -That would cause the roll to be bigger and less tight, (yuck!)
Hope this helps! :)
Here is the long awaited blog post!! Let me just preface this by saying that normally, when I do a blog post, I average about 12 images. It is my purpose with this blog to market my business with the power of social media.
I use my blog to give credit to other vendors and to represent the resulting beauty of my work. The most effective way for me to *show* beauty online is with photography, (Note: I'm giving the stink-eye to the rare photog that is insanely jealous and feels they should be the only ones allowed to take pics or do a blog post about a wedding. :P ) I've been a photographer for longer than I've been a seamstress, but I'm not trying to compete with wedding photogs with my images. Everyone has a different vision that they take away from a day. I also always make a point to not take shots of anything that the photographer has composed. And I will never, repeat, NEVER shoot over their shoulders.
Anyways, kudos to my many sweet, non-competitive photographer friends. Jenny Clark is one of them. She is a great photographer. She works with children especially well, (the hardest part!!) and is very skilled with what she does. She and I talked about this day and she kindly permitted me to take pictures. I am posting many more pictures than usual, because this was a family event for me and this post serves, not just as a business post, but as a personal family record.
Jenny shooting
without further ado...
The site was at a family farm. Unbelievably beautiful. Some of the pics have a foggy effect to them. That's not a dreamy filter that I used, it was just very humid, so I kept getting fog on my lens. lol
Here's the bustle for the reception. It's a triple traditional.
To Mark and Carly:
May God give you abounding love, patience, and wisdom. May you never be selfish. May you war against anything that tries to come against your marriage. May you always remember that you are on the same team. May you grow closer to God and deeper in love. And I pray that one day you look down at your aged feet and see how close you still walk together.
With love,
The Other Suters <3
I'm working a double today, so no blog post yet. But, I had a little break and just had to edit this one.
(See also, post below.) This is a pic I took at the wedding that I worked Saturday. A very different day for me! I was the seamstress, and attended as a guest and relative, (That guy below is my brother-in-law). As a photography enthusiast, I also had to take a few pics of my baby brother and new sissy! Jenny Clark from Don't Blink Photography shot this wedding beautifully and obliged me a minute to capture this. I can't wait to tell you more about her and all of their other wonderful vendors. Oh, and the wedding site... gasp. This here's God's country. Just wait til you see!!
Can you believe it? She took my name! ;)
... actually, she stole my baby brudder. Stay tuned, I'll be uploading the wedding of Mark and Carly Suter in the next couple of days!
This past Saturday, we worked a wedding in Roanoke. It was the infamous, 7-11 day! Free Slurpees for all!! Betsy, my bride got ready at the beautiful Patrick Henry Hotel in downtown Roanoke.
Today was a reunion of sorts for me. Molly, my bride from last December was a bridesmaid of Betsy's. We were also working once again with Paula Greenway of Vinton. She has a studio- yay! and her business is named PG Photography. Check out some of her work at the end of my blog post.
As usual, I delivered the dress, freshly steamed. The bridesmaids were with-it! They were already dressed when I arrived, and not one of them needed their gown steamed. Mom needed a tuck and tack, but was otherwise beautiful. Betsy slipped into her gown super fast, and it was showtime. Her train performed beautifully due to the great stabilizing job that my assistant, Yael did. During her pre-wedding pics, Betsy's dress tore a little at the hem. It was a quick stitch-up and she was photo ready again.
Betsy's hands are prepared for the slipping on of her new band.
We transported via limo to Lynn Haven Baptist in Vinton. I helped Betsy in and out of the limo to avoid her getting her gown dirty. Her dress seriously held together amazingly. It came from Celebration Bridal and had 3D lace flowers all over it. (I'm goo-goo over dimensional lace.)
I had lots of boutineers to pin and relatives to find once we got to the church. Betsy and her groom, Trey, are blessed to still have so many grandparents that could attend! Another amazing thing is that both the bride and the groom come from parents with marriages that are still intact. What a tremendous blessing! Well done! Marriages don't last because things are smooth, it takes a lot of commitment and team work along the way.
Pic 1 shows train down. Pic 2 is Betsy rockin' her "Gilded Fit." Pic 3 shows detail of bustle attachment.
This was my first time working with Vicki Itson of Weddings by Simplicity. She was the planner for the day and kept everything running smoothly. Betsy had a lovely team of courteous and capable vendors. What a difference that makes! Nooobody had a brain freeze today. ;)
One thing I love about their photographer, Paula, is that she gets her sneak peeks up so fast. I'm gonna let her take over from here with the pictures...
Paula always takes beautiful and creative ring shots.
Other vendors for the day were...
Ceremony Music: Cindie Hayden
Florist and linens: Creative Occasions
Catering: Pumpernickel Pickle
Cake: Casey's Cakes
Reception entertainment and photobooth: Quest Entertainment
Limo: Prestige Limo
Congrats, Betsy and Trey!!!
This day in June was all about beating the odds. The Doppler foretold a day of waves of downpours and lightening. Casey and Johnny's wedding was on the docket to be the last event held at Sweet Briar College due to the shocking news of it's closing.
Luckily, we had already been relieved of this sad fate when we read the exciting news 2 days before that Saving Sweet Briar was turning the situation around and that the college would be saved.
As I pulled in the college entrance I hoped for the best. I had lots of columned porches to navigate through to the inn where Casey would be getting ready. I had texted Casey this morning reminding her of how beautiful rainy or overcast weather wedding days are. The pictures are always so vibrant and colorful.
Meet Casey and her beautiful sisters.
I steamed out the gowns and helped everyone into their dresses. I had some tacking to do in order to secure straps for a family member. There was spot cleaning to do, a sticky zipper, and of course, tuxedo pants that had come in the wrong size. I had to lengthen the pants legs and tighten the waist for the Father of the Bride.
As my needle flew and my steamer hissed, the rain picked up its clouds and tiptoed out of the area. As the day progressed, it got sunnier and sunnier!
Casey, ready to walk down the aisle. Her gown was from David's Bridal.
Who is that officiating this sunny wedding? It is radio personality, Danny Meyers from K92 radio. He conducted the ceremony with football analogies and humor.
The catering was by Sweet Briar College Catering. The flowers and decor were all DIY! The cake was by Angie Moore of Angie's Custom Cakes. Music and lights by DJ Kidd Carter, another K92 personality.
The photographers were very laid back and nice. It was like a little reunion for me, because the photographer had been a Gilded Bride last year. I did her wedding gown alterations for her big day as well. This is Heather Kidd of Kidd photography on the left and her second shooter, Kelly Witt on the right. They are having fun with an umbrella prop. Heather already has the sneak peek up, so click her link and enjoy!
Casey is looking out the window while her gown is bustled up and ready for the reception. The ground was still wet from the morning rain, so I pinned up her chiffon layer in 4 extra places to keep it a little cleaner.
There you have it! A play-by-play of near misses and great saves that resulted in the pulling off of a beautiful wedding day. This was my first wedding at Sweet Briar, and I must say, it's a wonderful, flexible venue. Best wishes to Casey and Johnny!
So sweet... a bride came by to pick up her dress the final time & brought me these. ((Sniff, sniff)) <3
